Having a Baby Totally Sucks
or, The Things they are Scared to Tell a New Father.
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“Having a Baby Totally Sucks” is written by a New Father in response to the lack of truthful information that exists regarding the challenges that are unique to being a Man and having a Baby. 


Being very much like children themselves, Men need every bit of information possible to survive those early weeks where it seems like the “giving” will never end.


This website also presents many well-known - but heretofore unspoken -  points of view (including the reality that it is okay to not be head-over-heels in love with your child at first sight). These myths can overwhelm men with feelings of confusion, then guilt, and ultimately, bitterness and resentment.


Through a careful examination of the specific hassles and limitations men will experience from the 8th Month of Pregnancy to the 1st Month of your baby's life -- and tips to get through them -- "Having a Baby Totally Sucks" allows men to be men, so they can be better fathers.




(Disclaimer)

This is not an evil website. This is not even an angry website. It is a truthful website. An honest website. 


Other parents treat the very real challenges of being a Man and having a baby by giving you a morphine-drip before removing the band-aid. I tear the band-aid off


And you need me to tear it off. You're not doing yourself any favors by listening to the members of The Cult Of The Baby about how wonderful everything is. What a joy it is. It's not. It can be a real bitch. And this website will do for you what no one else has the balls to: 


I'm going to prepare you for the brutal weeks ahead.


You are a father now. Ready or not, here comes the pain.



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“Having a Baby Totally Sucks” is a forthcoming book by Heath Mensher.

You can contact him HERE.
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